Living in a rural area sometimes does not provide the kind of support that homeschoolers need or want from each other. Distance can become a frustrating obstacle. But, if you have a deep-seeded desire to get out and meet other families and distance is keeping you apart, there are ways to build a support group that can meet the needs of others who feel the same way you do.
Planning Stages
Obviously, it will take a bit of research and knowledge before you can start a support group. List your goals for wanting to meet with other families. Is it strictly social and a way to develop friendships? Is it for the purpose of finding others who can meet your child's learning needs where you cannot (Algebra, economics, or other courses)? Once you know what you expect from a support group you will need to find a way to get it advertised to other homeschooling families, perhaps through a town newspaper or index cards in area grocery stores. Be sure to include your contact information (especially an e-mail address), so other families can contact you. If possible, set up an e-mail address for the sole purpose of this support group, so you do not have to worry about giving out your personal one.
Preparing to Launch
Get out a map because it is time to do some serious research. Take a look at the areas around you and mark off the nearest cities and outlying areas from where you live. Try to find a central location for the support group meetings or play dates that is convenient for all of the areas that you hope to involve. Be willing to go a little extra distance if you need to in order to set the example that although it may be a bit of a drive, it is worth the effort.
Plan your gatherings on the same day and at the same time whether it be once a week or once a month. Being consistent will give other families the chance to mark their calendars and clear this day. Try your best to show up to each gathering. Since you are the one starting the support group, others may naturally lean on you as a dependable person to be there. If you cannot make a gathering, let other members know in advance, so someone else can do the organizing for that particular day.
Building a Database
Once you have a meeting or two, be sure to get contact information from the members. Distribute contact information to each person. Communication in these days and times make it so easy to keep in touch. If you meet once a month, there is no reason that you can't e-mail three times a day!
Be Thankful for What You Get
No matter how much you may try to bring together a huge support group of like-minded families, the reality is that rural life may not produce the results you dreamed of. Count yourself blessed if you are able to make one or two friends with other families that are willing to travel and make sacrifices for friendship. Don't give up either! Keep posting your support group when you can. People are moving and changing all the time. You may give up right when a family really needs the support. You just never know.
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